Rain and it's memories.

We all love rainy season approximately, but enjoyment we have in childhood during Monsoon can't be forgettable. My memory in childhood during Monsoon was playing at terrace with my group of friends in rain without caring about our stain on clothes or getting ill. The most thing we used to love during heavy rains are the holidays of school we used to get. There were even times when loadshedding used to happened mostly but even those times we kids used to be unaffected and used to play in our society compound. Now when i see, urban's society compound  all kids doesn't get involved in playing games like hide and seek, kho kho. The best memories were playing bruceley bruceley with my neighborhood friends , me and my brother and when the frequent complaints increased our spanking by mum. Those people don't have inverter at home specifically, we middle class people who can't afford candle light dinner at fancy restaurants, get the chance to be at their home 😂😂😂. Being mumbaikar not to forget young couple becoming more cosier at places like marine drive, bandstand etc and our group of girls commenting on those couple 😂😂😂. Monsoon also blossom romance of not only teenagers but also of middle-aged and olds too, having a walk together hands in hands under one umbrella is also a part of romance which we ignore sometimes. Also not to forget bollywood buff like us have diehard imagination of romancing in rains , that Aashiqui 2 types 😂😂. So even if Monsoon creates hurdles for working people specially , problems of drainage and traveling but still Monsoon will be special. 

Escape....

This topic needs to have a little discussion because may be it doesn't have much awareness .when my cousin married a guy from her choice by escaping it not only shocked me but also led to have serious thinking in my mind. A girl who was a inspiration in our whole family for her successful career in pharmacy,  had to run away from her house is questionable. This is not a rare topic where people have to marry their choice by escaping. So let's discuss about it. So the very main reason behind this problem is the friendlier communication gap with our parents and also acceptance, caste and cultural gap too. We as a nation had reach to very progressing nation but when it comes for selection of life partner,elders consent is mandatory. I am not saying that it's wrong, that parents should not take interest in their child's life . Of course they will  they have their right but it becomes worst when they forcefully imposed their decision. The next thing also should be considered that we all have that desire to marry a person who makes our life better and loving but as it is not always a bed of roses, in the desire to live a beautiful life we often ignore the question that are we, as an individual prepared for this step because it not only requires love but also responsibility towards each other. Specially there are cases of girls getting married before completing their education which is very impractical. It's also important to think that , in the state of mere emotions are we completely prepared physically, mentally, financially. So the main solution for this double edged sword is that if we decide to marry someone, it should be completely our responsible decision ,so no need for blame game. Second is that if we get little more friendlier atmosphere in our family so that we balance personal and professional living without hiding from our elders. Just we need little support and acceptance because no one likes to be away from our family. It's time to change our mindset otherwise this communication barrier will increase day by day. Just little implementation on this matter  can better many lives. Why not Make marriage a happiness in which everyone is accepted exclusive of their caste, creed. Progress in life occurs when there is a perfect balance