Rain and it's memories.

We all love rainy season approximately, but enjoyment we have in childhood during Monsoon can't be forgettable. My memory in childhood during Monsoon was playing at terrace with my group of friends in rain without caring about our stain on clothes or getting ill. The most thing we used to love during heavy rains are the holidays of school we used to get. There were even times when loadshedding used to happened mostly but even those times we kids used to be unaffected and used to play in our society compound. Now when i see, urban's society compound  all kids doesn't get involved in playing games like hide and seek, kho kho. The best memories were playing bruceley bruceley with my neighborhood friends , me and my brother and when the frequent complaints increased our spanking by mum. Those people don't have inverter at home specifically, we middle class people who can't afford candle light dinner at fancy restaurants, get the chance to be at their home 😂😂😂. Being mumbaikar not to forget young couple becoming more cosier at places like marine drive, bandstand etc and our group of girls commenting on those couple 😂😂😂. Monsoon also blossom romance of not only teenagers but also of middle-aged and olds too, having a walk together hands in hands under one umbrella is also a part of romance which we ignore sometimes. Also not to forget bollywood buff like us have diehard imagination of romancing in rains , that Aashiqui 2 types 😂😂. So even if Monsoon creates hurdles for working people specially , problems of drainage and traveling but still Monsoon will be special. 

Escape....

This topic needs to have a little discussion because may be it doesn't have much awareness .when my cousin married a guy from her choice by escaping it not only shocked me but also led to have serious thinking in my mind. A girl who was a inspiration in our whole family for her successful career in pharmacy,  had to run away from her house is questionable. This is not a rare topic where people have to marry their choice by escaping. So let's discuss about it. So the very main reason behind this problem is the friendlier communication gap with our parents and also acceptance, caste and cultural gap too. We as a nation had reach to very progressing nation but when it comes for selection of life partner,elders consent is mandatory. I am not saying that it's wrong, that parents should not take interest in their child's life . Of course they will  they have their right but it becomes worst when they forcefully imposed their decision. The next thing also should be considered that we all have that desire to marry a person who makes our life better and loving but as it is not always a bed of roses, in the desire to live a beautiful life we often ignore the question that are we, as an individual prepared for this step because it not only requires love but also responsibility towards each other. Specially there are cases of girls getting married before completing their education which is very impractical. It's also important to think that , in the state of mere emotions are we completely prepared physically, mentally, financially. So the main solution for this double edged sword is that if we decide to marry someone, it should be completely our responsible decision ,so no need for blame game. Second is that if we get little more friendlier atmosphere in our family so that we balance personal and professional living without hiding from our elders. Just we need little support and acceptance because no one likes to be away from our family. It's time to change our mindset otherwise this communication barrier will increase day by day. Just little implementation on this matter  can better many lives. Why not Make marriage a happiness in which everyone is accepted exclusive of their caste, creed. Progress in life occurs when there is a perfect balance  

Masturbation.

So guys, today I am going to discuss about a topic with which we all deal but hesitant sometimes to discuss it. It's about masturbation, which is almost a part of hormones, but still we often feel uncomfortable to discuss about it.  So masturbation exactly means using different ways to satisfy asexually by using our hands, fingers, vibtator, sex toys etc. Its a myth that girl doesn't masturbate but the fact is, it's healthy for mind which relaxes the emotions  We jokingly called it as a selfstudy 😂. It becomes necessary also when, we watch bold sexy content and unable to complete our body's desire due to unsatisfied  sex life or if we are single etc. When i watched lust stories, i was amazed by the character of a working woman who is not completely satisfied by her husband in terms of passion, as every person, specifically woman wants her lovemaking to be completely full of passion, exploration, sometimes that seductive touch which enhance mood, body and which just provide her most pleasurable orgasms thus she uses vibtator to satisfy herself and it clearly gave an inspirational message that, there is no harm to complete our desires without cheating our partner. So i think we should break the communication barrier and should discuss it without hesitancy. So if it's unable to control some sexual desires, we can masturbate and even in scientific research, it shows that masturbation is good for mental health too. 

An unforgettable touch.

Hii guys, this is Mariyam shaikh and today, i want to share my personal story of that unforgettable bad touch. It took lots of time, to openly talk about it anx and all these years it disturbed me internally. It happened when i was in a fifth grade hardly 10 year, during the visit at a stationery shop, a guy in a age between 20 to 25 year, touched inappropriately on my back and hips. That act just shivered me and i was in total shock. As soon i gained normalcy, he was gone till. I didn't knew why i didn't confronted him and why i didn't share immediately with my parents. May i be i was too young to understand this devil act. Similar molestation even my friend gone through her own uncle, who molested her while she was asleep, he touched on her thighs and her legs. When she told about this to her mother, her mother misunderstood her, she told that it might be her misunderstanding. Even boys suffer too, my good guy friend suffered sexual abuse when he was 8 years old, from his female neighbor. So after hearing so many stories, i analaysed why it happened, it happens because of unsatisfied sexually desires, it also happens due to the availability of unethical content on internet example is makeout between mother and son, teacher and student, step sister and step brother thus it  can affect people's mentality too, the act make us believe to cross the border of relation is not wrong. The last reason is the communication gap between a kid and parent , due to this gap kids feel little uncomfortable to share about their personal life, so it's also parents duty to educate children about a good and bad touch. If this gap would decrease kids would get assurance that in their difficult times too , their family will undoubtedly understand them. 

A little tribute to our bhai.

As a writer and being a extreme Salman khan fan, it's a mere little tribute to him. So the man who is so successful actor, producer and of course career launcher of many. But besides this all his life has so much things to describe . From having controversial trials, affair with beautiful ladies to being one of the most charitable person. Actually when i personally thought about the real nature then he is the one who loves to help people who needs him but also intolerant about misbehavior with him or his dear ones. He trained Hrithik,, Arjun, Katrina and many more even during those time when his career was not very successful .This quality inspired all of us that this man doesn't feared competition and that's why, by God's grace he is so successful today. People don't know that the late mother of arjun Kapoor during her last stage of cancer, she told bhai to take care of arjun and anshula. Probably that's only can happened when there is a complete trust. But this successful person doesn't had complete story may be because of his possessiveness and impatient nature. Despite all this, he donates 90% of his income to charity and that's the reason of the respect and love he gained from public is innumerable. The reason he is not very communicative with every one is that he feels, that people misjudged his bold and honest opinions. His bodyguard Shera, said in  a interview that bhai has true blessings of people ,he will help with out any expectations. Although Salman believes that he committed some mistakes but he tried to correct in a good ways. A strong looking well built guy who has a  soft heart. So bhai loads of love to u. I hope you entertain us like this only and inspire us. God gives u all happiness in life  

By my choice, not by pressure.

Hey guys, this is the story of a woman who had chosen an different path, in the those times, which other women wouldn't had thought of. From being a single mother before wedlock or raising a child boldly to marrying at the age of 60. Her story admired me lot. So let's talk about her. Her name is Neena gupta an actress, an director, theatre artist but behind this all glamorous silver screen, she fought many taboos and battles by herself. Born in 1954,in a simple middle class family , after her graduation joined national school of drama in Delhi. After certain auditions and certain plays in theaters, she got opportunity to work in movie, even in those time, she didn't typical heroine role. But who knows that her personal life will affect her proffesional life too.  She was engaged with pandit jasraj son and before few days, he broke engagement without providing any reason, as a woman even i could feel her pain,the pain she would have gone through, because it's not easy to move on specially for a woman to move on speedily, because it breaks your heart when someone suddenly leaves you, after giving a hope for a better life. As she was going from this trauma, life selected an different path for her. Once in a free time, when she was watching a cricket match on T. V, she saw the captain of the team almost like crying after losing the match. That captain was Sir. Vivian Richards (ace cricketer) of his times, at that time she felt that, wow this man is so real and it attracted her lot. Who knew that this attraction has already a story written by God. So while shooting in Jaipur, she saw Vivian and his West Indian team in same hotel, she and her colleagues dining. They just exchange an glance. After some days they even boarded to same flight, so destiny diehardly trying to make it happen, an old woman exchanged her seat with Vivian because she was with little kid, and then Vivian and neena got seat nearby and thus the communication began and slowly after that boarding they came in contact, and both attracted towards each other ended up having an affair. But problem happened when neena became pregnant which was unplanned, her whole family and close friends were shocked. All adviced her to abort because our society doesn't accept child without marriage. But neena decided to give birth, Vivian was okay with her decision but he couldn't marry her, as he was already married with a carribian woman. In his culture, it's totally cool. She got many hatred messages from our society as she had child before marriage which is probably considered as impure decision. According to a woman psychology, a woman get connected to the baby in her womb, not only physically but emotionally too. Aborting and not aborting child have their own pros and cons . Neena says that sometimes she have regrets of taking these tough decisions because she says, this decision affected her daughter childhood vastly, she used to often get bully by her school friends due to unusual body, looks, skin tone and not getting a father's love. Although she raised her so well and today she is successful fashion designer but raising her single handly was not very simple. As she have to fulfill all responsibilities  but she says that her father supported during that time and she feels lucky. He used to take care of masaba when she used to be on shoot. All this steps were unusual and created an strong bitchy image by media .but best thing she is proud of her decisions too. She found love again before some years with Vivek Mehra. Even Vivian meets sometimes masaba thus after having so difficulties too, she prooved a woman once decided can go to any extent specially for her child and also created her way on her feet. She always felt that the difficulties she faced, masaba should never go through. Masaba says she is proud of her mother and her decisions, because despite several odd, she gave her life and made her strong, independent woman . 

When duty came first.

While watching bajirao mastani movie on TV, suddenly an thought evoke me, that world remembers the great love story of bajirao mastaani, but why kashibai sacrifice and her emotions doesn't caught anyone's attention. So let's discuss about this brave lady. Born in a very wealthy and loving family, Rao and Kashi had child marriage. So in such tender age they both didn't knew the exact values of marriage, but slowly and gradually , their bond became stronger by growing up together, playing, quarreling etc. Even Rao's family too treated her well with respect. Radhabai (Rao's mother) taught her every daughter in law's responsibility and wife's duties. Even Rao got trained well and became one of the most successful head minister of peshwa. All was going well, but soon kashi and whole rao family got shocked, when he announced that he married Mastani. Mastani a Muslim princess of Bundelkhand. It felt that some one stabbed kashi's heart . She never believed that her husband can have other woman in his life, even kashi ego was hurted and a woman never forgives the one, who breaks her ego. When Rao apologized Kashi, she replied " I demanded my life from you but instead you had snatched my self confidence and when Rao asked his punishment, she replied ' never enter in my room'. That's was a tough decision for a young woman . Question arosed in my mind that if Kashi would had been involved with other man, than would Rao forgived her??  But after so much too, she always taught her son to respect his father. The most impressive quality of her was when Bajirao and mastaani died, she not only adopted her son Shamsher bahadur, but also completed all administrative duties of peshwa. Her utmost principle was that emotions never come in way of duty.